When we are in pain or are struggling in some way we tend to get overwhelmed with the problem or problems we need to sort out. It is important and I need to do more of this myself, to do things you love doing to give yourself a break and put yourself in a better place.
It does not have to be anything expensive or over the top if you cannot afford it or do not have the time. Play some music, I am always amazed at how much I love and respond to music. When I was suffering so much with my neighbours from hell (absolute hell). I used to put on some music in order to escape my predicament and cover the incessant stamping and pacing from my drugged up neighbour above. The results were amazing, I felt better, I covered the noise which could drive me to distraction. And the music triggered good feelings and good mind set! I love music even if it makes me cry - crying is of course therapeutic and good for the soul.
Do some exercise checkout this run which is happening on the 11th of Dec and is arranged by a colleague at the gym, West Hampstead, London. I was never more aware of the homeless than when I was close to being homeless and indeed became homeless myself. Through unfair treatment which led to eviction, I was nearly on the streets fulltime. So I felt I should run for a good cause, I did the run with members from the gym and colleagues, we ran from Finsbury Park to Brixton for Crisis. Sadly I am unable to run this year but I will be helping and I would encourage any one to do it there is still time. Or do something similar in the future or organise your own run/walk for charity. Doing good helps you get over sadness, pain and struggle.
Check out www.runforcover.com